If you want us to realize, a bad habit of judging other people is a tiring job. We have been throwing waste God-given energy. Even more useful than fart spreading evil of others.
If we want to get used to always think positive, judging people on the bright side, maybe we will become healthier. body feels lighter, my head felt light, my breath is not gasping. But life is a choice, with all its consequences….

Many times life does not give us what we want. However, not all of life rarely gives us what was requested. One time, the ease with what we prayed terkabulkan. But at other times, unbearable difficulty, though we had “slam-banging bones”.

Life we live it is like a spinning wheel; sometimes we are on top, sometimes below. Every person must have experienced these situations; anyone can undergo and pass a fair and dignified, but not a bit of bounce and also passed by way of “unnatural” because it chose a shortcut.

LIFE TEACHERS book contains stories of people who could get out of the siege hardship, in a way that reasonable and honorable. Who are they? Well … most of them turned out to be the people who wound daily difficulties. There bajigur artisans, singers, office boy, and others. Koq can, they survive and live respectable in these limitations, but the temptation to take shortcuts is often approached.

The secret of their success to a strong figure in the face of life’s difficulties is that this book tells. From their stories, we can learn about how to live a rich and respected in the middle of the loop of economic shortages. They are exemplary even just an ordinary person. Because they are the real teachers: Teacher of Life.

Available in January 2010 in the Scholastic and other bookstores.

6 Reasons NOT Leaving a Comment is a Big Mistake

Author: Heather Masson

With all this new technology about, and the many social bookmarking sites available to submit posts to, are you finding that you don’t spend as much time commenting on blogs in your field of expertise? Do you just do a quick retweet, and move on?

Did you know that doing so could very well be hurting you?

Leaving a well thought out comment, asking a question or further discussing a post does take extra time. But it is time well spent.

1. When you leave a comment you get a back link to your site or blog. We all know how important back links are to help your own page in ranking well with the search engines.
2. Leaving comments helps your personal brand. As a new blogger or site owner, one of the most difficult things is becoming well known and trusted by your visitors. By leaving appropriate, thoughtful comments, using your real name and showing people that you are a real person goes a long way to building that trust.
3. It’s a great way to promote your own post. If you’ve really spent a lot of time and energy on a post you want it to be read. One strategy is to find other recent blog posts (by doing a Google Blog search on your main keywords) and then contributing to that conversation with some very relevant information. That blog author will likely be very happy to have additional content brought into the discussion. It is then appropriate, and relevant to leave your website address pointing to that particular post on your blog.
4. By spending time out in your field of expertise, you are forming relationships and community. As well as you becoming known, and helping your brand, you are getting to know others. Building relationships with others can help you find people that will promote your site, perhaps even become a joint venture partner in the future.
5. Leaving comments brings more visitors back to you. I often cruise the comments section of other blogs. If I see a comment I really can appreciate, I will click the link and go check out that persons blog. If I like some of the articles in that blog, after I leave a comment for them, I will often add them to my reader.
6. You get what you give. If you want your readers to get involved in your blog, and leave you thoughtful comments, guess what! You get what you give. If you don’t ever take the time to leave someone else a comment you won’t get as many back on a regular basis either.

As a blogger, I LOVE getting great comments. And I love to return the favor. It is a very key part in helping me get to know my readers, and helping me provide information to you that you are, in fact, gonna want to read!

Next time you read a great blog post. Hit the tweet button. For Sure! We all love that new phenomenon. I think it’s wonderful that you enjoyed my post enough to share it with all of your followers… and again that favor will often be returned. But then head down to the comment section, and add your thoughts as well. You’ll be glad you did!

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democracy without the truth

now, Indonesia has become a country without opposition. many parties participated the election, none dared to be opposition for the government.

if so, there useless election! Indonesia has become a democratic country with the name of “collusive-democracy”. Just in Indonesia, democracy changed become a collusion between president, government, and parliament. what a country?

one village gathered!

3beeshop established the co-operation with the craftsmen in Indonesia. We headed him with the batik craftsmen from the Laweyan batik village, Solo, Central Java. You who had stopped over to this batik village, definitely could have imagined how activity our people’s economics really be proud of.

Currently we increase the co-operation tie with the craftsman from Garut. What was his product? Dodol Garut? Not! Knew you that in Garut had a village that produced the jacket of import? The jacket that was spoken of highly by the man and the woman in Europe? With them we established the association.

Further loyal customer need not very busy bought the Jacket overseas, that evidently the Garut production. Your work we a group! You remained at the clique his model and his measurement. We will send to your address, after accepting confirmation of payment.

buy now!

deradicalization in Indonesia

It just my flash-views on the government’s attitude toward the radically movement. As we know, since the government had always been approach with the Pesantren. however, Pesantren are where the fundamental attitude education for Islamic people. But who needs to realize is not necessarily the attitude of radical fundamentalists. This is where governments must realize that the Pesantren does’nt make a radical person. We’ll see about the history of Islamic schools in Indonesia. Pesantren that gave birth to people even pluralist and nationalist. That radical attitude is transmitted by those who have links to radical movement outside Indonesia, such as the JI group, or any of their current labels.

In addition to the Pesantren approach, the government is also an enterprise of the former radical who has returned to the bosom of the motherland. Usually people like this be embraced with 2 goals: 1. can pass on his relatives deradikalisasi, 2. can extract the remnants of confidential information about the radical movements that have been left behind.

Another government role deradicalization goal is to turn anti-radical community, such as the Jaringan Islam Liberal, the Forum Inter-Religious Forum, and others that I do not know. This leaves the way his own problems, namely the clash between radical ideas (and who are considered among the fundamentalists) vs. the pluralist (moderate). Between religious (may be called the tolerance) to deal with the traditional radical who always suspected that these forum is how the Zionist and Christianization to paralyze the Islamic fundamentalism. Some preachers (interpreter da’i) in Jakarta had echoing opposition like this.

For me, conscious or not, free school programs and health care as well as a way of government efforts to answer issues that radicals often using the issue of social inequality and poverty as a movement power-raising programs. That it should be noted, the issue of poverty and social inequality is not only used as marketing brand for the Islamic radicalism, but also for the movements of the character of “the left”.

batik, from local culture to worldwide proudly

Common among the young, consider wearing a batik was only at official functions only. The most common is when the invitation to attend a wedding reception. Many young people buy batik only for the preparation of such events. But when any of them who wear batik on a weekday, there were some who remarked, “would be invited?”

Perceptions of batik wear only on formal event did not have to happen again. Our nation has always wear batik. Remember when we were in school, had to wear batik uniforms on certain days? Remember when civil servants to wear batik KORPRI on a specific day? Yes, actually it is the government’s invitation for us proud to wear batik. However, because the invitation is top down, there are people who feel forced to wear. Even the few people who are not anti-wear batik, because not suggested as a submissive. People like this are usually more proud to be regarded as contrarian current (mainstream).

We thank the United Nations inaugurated the cultural heritage of Batik Indonesia. We are also proud that the government should make this day, October 2, 2009 as the Day of National Batik. Hopefully, with two important momentum that our nation – especially the younger generation – no longer ashamed to using batik.

Thank you also to be our brothers of allied, Malaysia. If they do not claim the Archipelago culture – one of them batik – as their culture, maybe the spirit of our culture will not be rising. Regardless of any intentions, I personally thank you cluster in Malaysia.

We live our own. Are we proud of batik? Are we just wear batik on formal event? Hopefully, starting today, more and more people are proud of our diverse archipelago batik. Yes! Batik not only from Java. Batik does not belong to the Javanese people only. Many other areas in Indonesia, which also has a unique batik. Batik is the creation of local culture indonesia, even now worldwide. see Nelson Mandela, South African leader, who always wore a batik wherever and whenever he went.

How proud I was of Indonesia!

sell and buy as charitable

3BeeShop is an online store that lets you sell and buy as charitable. We will set aside some profits from each transaction for the purposes of education and empowerment of orphan children and incompetent.

To achieve that purpose, in cooperation with the sahabatsesama, an organization empowering orphans and could not based in the Boarding School. The sahabatsesama main program is mobilizing of donations to finance their education.

Anyone can join in here as a seller or buyer. Who want to entrust your merchandise, please contact us via sales@3beeshop.com.

If you just want to shop, select items and follow instructions. If you just want to give charity, please transfer to our account in BCA, Mandiri, or Paypal. In 3Beeshop.com, we can share together … Hail …

Quality Declined Drastically Indonesia

how can Indonesia be better if led by a president who is not assertive, the parliament led by an opportunist, and one big party led by troublous who have scrap problems with their own people?

religion, politic, and attitude

My friend asked me, “Is religion that must be declared? Do I need to tell people, hey …. I will be religious or I have a new religion!  is that …?”

I was busy enjoying the first piece of catfish fried. I pulled the edge of his stomach, swallow, hm … delicious! Since this morning until the middle of the night I not eaten.

“I think, we do not need to inform people about our religion and beliefs!” still my best friend is talking.

I dab my fish steaks to the mortar that add crushed red pepper to stimulate my appetite. Phew… Spicy but delicious!

“Fortunately what religion tells us to others?!” My friend is still not finished blurted out.